Christmas and cheating go hand-in-hand claims the woman dubbed Britain’s most prolific mistress.
Gweneth Lee, 49, who lives in upmarket Chelsea in West London, says she will go on illicit dates with the married men she’s currently dating before and after the festive break as they juggle time with their families.
The jet-setting mistress, who describes her perfect yuletide date as sex in a five-star hotel followed by a designer shopping trip, says her current partners, all married, have dubbed her their ‘little Christmas distraction.’
And she admits: ‘I’m having more affairs than ever before – tis the season to be cheating. We have all been locked up for too long and want to have some fun.’
‘A little Christmas distraction’: Gweneth Lee, 49, from London, plans to continue her affairs with three married men during the festive period saying her lovers will juggle their time to play happy families at home, while also sneaking out to have sex with her
Lee, who’s had more than 150 affairs – and happily broke lockdown rules during the height of the pandemic, says: ‘Christmas and New Year definitely brings out the naughty side in the men’
Enjoying a date with one of the married men she’s currently dating; Lee says her partners like her to dress up for them in the bedroom, with favourite outfits including a dominatrix, a pilot and a lingerie model
Businesswoman Lee, whose husband Robert died of cancer in 2011, has had affairs with more than 130 married men after meeting them on dating website IllicitEncounters.com.
Gweneth began using the dating site while she was still married to her oil trader husband, who was also a serial cheat.
She said: ‘I found out what he was up to and thought: “If I cannot beat him, I will join him.
‘After he died I didn’t want another husband and affairs suit me. You don’t get all the tedium and bad sex that inevitably accompanies a long-term relationship.”‘
Lee even broke lockdown rules to keep seeing her recent lovers, saying: ‘I’d be lying if I said that the last two years have not been tough with the restrictions but we are back to semi-normal again now and I am having the time of my life.’
‘Christmas and New Year definitely brings out the naughty side in the men that I meet. They are keen to enjoy some passion before being locked up at home with their families for a week.
‘I have been enjoying some delicious sex as we all get ready to break up for Christmas.
‘My perfect date is sex at one of one of London’s five-star hotels, a Christmas shopping trip to Bond Street and my favourite designer stores such as Gucci, and then dinner at one of the capital’s Michelin-starred restaurants.
She adds: ‘It is always best to do the sex first because it is so much more exciting when you are fresh and not tired from shopping and bloated from dinner.’
The three men she is seeing this year are an airline pilot, a hedge fund manager and an entrepreneur.
The high life: Lee says her perfect festive date is sex at one of one of London’s five-star hotels – followed by dinner and shopping at designer clothes stores
She explains: ‘They are all married and have absolutely no intention of leaving their wives. I am their little Christmas distraction.
‘They have all been married a long time and, let’s face it, sex gets boring when you are sleeping with the same person for decade after decade.
You don’t get all the tedium and bad sex that inevitably accompanies a long-term relationship…
Mistress Gweneth Lee on having multiple affairs with married men
‘People stop making the effort and the sex becomes routine. I make sure that sex is never boring – for me, it is always an event and something to be celebrated.’
Discussing the family life of one of her current partners, she says: ‘One of my lovers is a pilot who I have been seeing since the summer and he lives in Sussex with his family near Gatwick Airport.
‘He does a lot of overnight stays in cities around the world and I am his London girl.
‘He loves a woman in a uniform so I got the pilot pictures in my shoot done especially for him. That outfit drives him crazy.
First class: The jet-setter regularly travels the globe with the rich married men she dates
‘The second is a hedge fund manager worth several millions. He divides his time between the family home in a village in Berkshire and his flat in the Barbican in central London.
‘He has lots of lovers and his wife turns a blind eye to his affairs. He can do as he pleases when he is at his flat.
‘What goes on in London, stays in London’, is their attitude. I have been seeing him since the autumn and we are meeting at his flat early in the New Year to celebrate 2022 with a bang!’
IllicitEncounters sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: ‘Gweneth is typical of the well educated, sophisticated women having affairs on the site this Christmas.
‘They seek out a niche site like ours because they want to meet rich men who come with absolutely no baggage or expectations of a relationship. They just want great sex and a good time and Gweneth delivers that in spades.’
Her third lover has several businesses and his family live in rural Warwickshire. He travels to London a lot for business, spending time with Gweneth and other women.
Gweneth used to be happily married to her late husband Robert, right, but she’s now vowing never to be ‘exclusive’ again
Gweneth started meeting lovers online during her marriage to Robert, pictured, who used the same website for infidelities
‘He enjoys kinky sex but his wife is not interested any more. He has lots of bondage gear which he likes us to use together. He went to boarding school and his favourite scenario is where I dominate him as a strict headmistress who has caught him being naughty.’
IllicitEncounters.com has had the busiest year in its history with a 28 per cent rise in activity since social distancing rules were lifted.